Well I thought I'd give you one more pic before I move on to another section. I've decided to continue downwards so get to the bottom of the dress. I've done it so the hoop is on a 10 row section at the bottom of the current stitching, then I'll stitch that 10 row section without a hoop. By the way I realized today I had counted out from my grid wrong, the grooms head should have started between the 2 and 3 vertical gridline but unstead I started him right on the second one, grrrrr. Luckily I have allowed 5 inches extra on either side so it should be fine.
Any way, here is update with arm completed

(forgot to take one of the entire thing idiot that I am)

XandraS...