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Hope you won't mind me sharing -- my mum had to have a lump in her groin removed last week and today she got the result and it's cancer, but it doesn't originate in the lump; so now she needs to have lots of tests, there are some swellings in her abdomen which they think may be the source, and then she may need another operation, or chemo, or both.
For the moment we've decided (or she has -- I'm leaving it very much with her) that I won't go over to the Netherlands as she says she'll just be having all these tests and sleeping a lot, but if she does need the op I will probably go over there for a week or so to look after her when she comes out.
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So sorry to hear about your mums situation Mabel. I hope the doctors find the source and can start treatment as soon as possible. Thinking of you and your mum xx
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So sorry to hear that Mabel, keeping my fingers crossed for you :x:
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I am really sorry...
My prayers are with you and your mum.
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so sorry to hear about your mom. my thoughts are with the both of you.
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Thoughts and prayers with you both xx
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So sorry to hear that Mabel! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! x
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Very sorry to hear about your mom. Kindest regards to you and your family.
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So sorry to hear your news Mabel and will add a prayer or three for you all.

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So very sorry to hear about your mum. I think that you are both totally right about the timing of you going to be with her. So often people just to attention and then find that it would have been better to have delayed their actions. There is so much more that can be done for cancer patients now so do not lose heart. Best wishes to both of you. Keep being positive and remember that we are all here for you.

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What awful news! :hug: I'll be thinking about you and mother.. I hope whatever recovery she may need will be quick..Take good care of her when you get there Mabel
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Thinking of you. xx
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So sorry to hear about this Mabel. I hope they are able to quickly find the source and start treatment for her. :hug:
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sorry to hear... my mom is going thru chemo atm and had a masectomy... it can be tough especially if you do not live near her...I talk to her alot on the phone and my sister and brother are both living close to her now ....

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So sorry to hear about your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and her. And definitely hoping that the doctors have caught it in time. :hug:

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*lots of hugs* my thoughts are with you and yours Mabel. I hope the results come back quickly and it's something that they can deal with

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So sorry to hear that, Mabel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Mum.
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Oh dear! How awful for her, and you! And such a worrying time.

Here's hoping for a speedy and simple solution.

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Sending a few hugs your way and a lot of prayers as well. :hug: :hug:
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So sorry, Mabel. Try to stay positive - it does help a lot. Hope the tests help find the source and that treatment can start soon. :hug:
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